Dating only one woman
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I’m a founder and CEO of a global software company. Then I happened to meet a friend’s sister for dinner, and the sister was 31 and we talked for 6 hours. But then it became clear to me that conventional dating wasn’t going to work. The first woman was the "upfront woman." I met her for a drink and she was very open about the fact that as long as there was some chemistry, she would meet with me and sleep with me for money. I need more of an emotional connection with someone, even though it might sound weird in that environment.
When I dated conventionally, it always followed the same pattern: Meet a girl, get to know them, they like the vibe. I just found that as women and men age, they get more tainted by their experiences.
I was looking at older women as being tainted and having the view that life is not the greatest thing in the world.
After processing everything I went through, now I realize they’re just not necessarily willing to put up with bullshit and they’re not going to sit there and think everything is rosy all the time.
But the thing was, I was exposing her to my entire world — I have kids who knew about her, my ex knew about her — and she wouldn't expose me to anyone.And I asked, do you ever feel like I have more power in this relationship than you do?And she looked and me and said,much more concerned now about the perception from my girlfriend's friends as they potentially view me as more predatory. In New York, I’m more likely to stick to places I know, where people know me.She was saying all the right things but her actions weren't matching what she was saying.So I told her, either you change or it's not going to work. I spent 0,000 while dating on the site, and about 90 percent of that was on the third woman. I'd buy her a ring, she would lose the ring or say it got stolen, and I'd buy her another ring to replace the ring. I went back on the site and had one phone conversation with a woman, but that was it.